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Cake day: February 6th, 2024

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  • Too many people think it has to be cursive and your name. But a signature is just your mark showing you agree. You may have heard “Sign your X on the line.” X has become the stereotype of a mark or signature someone who can’t write would use it to sign something. It could be another shape though. The use of a cursive name as a signature is just a cultural thing. When I became an adult I thought about changing my signature to print since I hate cursive, but I decided to not relearn and be last and use what I was taught in school. Years later I realized I could at least do something mildly different like first initial middle initial and last name. But I don’t want to relearn plus most times I sign it not super important so I barely even write my name, but it’s still my signature even if squiggly lines. Lol. I save taking my time writing my signature when it is actually something important like buying a house or car.















  • I’ll check out Backdoor and Breaches. Thanks. That’s how the best picture. Tried the QR and Google image search and nothing The picture is so old I can’t remember why I didn’t take a better picture or a picture of the name. 😆 Thankfully it looks like someone else found it. While I wanted the name I really wanted to know of any other games like this. I want to make a list.






  • I think of cults as more of systems of control. MLMs, jobs (Theranos), large-group awareness training (nxivm), political groups (Maga), exercise groups (CrossFit), fandoms, book clubs, families, online groups, etc can all be cults.

    I suggest the podcast IndoctriNation⁠ by Rachel Bernstein to see many ways these “systems of control” as she calls them can manifest.

    I personally think that cult behavior is just normal behavior taken to the extreme so there really isn’t an opposite. Maybe being alone with no relationships.

    The various types of groups we are on family, friends, work, recreational, etc have various controls on how you act and speak. This isn’t necessarily bad. You probably want to be a little different with family than with your hobby group. I explained the broader meaning of cults to my Dad and he said the Marines have those aspects. I think an important part to know if a group is probably fine is if you can leave with no issues. If there are consequences to leaving the group that’s a huge red flag.

    I suggest looking at the BITE Model of Authoritarian Control. Which is a useful tool to check if a group is a cult. You can read up on problems with this tool, but it’s still a good starting point.

    Edit: No one joins a cult. They join groups for positive reasons and then those groups either turn into cults or as they get deeper into the group the control parts are introduced.

    We all probably brushed up against cults without knowing. You could go to an exercise/spiritual/hobby/other group and what you don’t know is if you had gotten more involved and took the special classes, or volunteered and became a part of the in group you could have become a part of a cult.