𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼

neurodivergent queer luddite technologist

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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • that’s a rough choice on a tight timeline

    if you’re open to suggestions: take the severance package

    anecdotally (including my own anecdatum) a PIP is just a step in building a case for constructive dismissal, especially if your workplace is a factor in your burnout. do you really want to have to work even harder for a chance at staying there?

    take some time to recover from burnout (even if it means having less funds for a bit), then try and find something to do for employment thay doesn’t suck so hard

    myself, I chose disappearing in the bureaucracy of a multinational enterprise for a reduced salary and title. getting away with only a few hours of work most days, and spending the rest of the time living my life



















  • fwiw i think you were (mostly) in the right there

    it’s the same logic imo behind “we don’t misgender quote bad unquote people”

    if it’s a shitty thing to do – and imo attacking someone’s physical ability is a shitty thing to do – justifying it because you think the target somehow deserves it doesn’t make it not shitty

    it also makes anyone vulnerable to that behavior because others have decided it’s justified, that they are part of whatever “other” group

    (there are parallels here to death penalty or prison abolition arguments)

    (also we have to hold space for the paradox of tolerance. nazi punks fuck off, etc.)

    the only thought I have to the contrary here is that what AOC said (“maybe if you channeled this anger into swimming faster …”) can be read as critical of the transphobe’s behavior and choices – where she’s choosing to direct her anger – and not her physical ability

    anyway

    people sure can be shitty and defensive about it, huh

    I hope you can take some time doing nourishing things away from the internet and feel better. all warriors need a break from the front lines, SJW’s included


    edit: this happened on a blahaj community? wow. I am disappointed in my peeps. otoh queer communities, like all besieged communities of vulnerable people, are understandably sensitive and kinda bitey toward anything that might threaten them. everything is complicated