She is very understanding and supportive and has done her best to accommodate my needs and express her feelings. We have agreed on girlmoding 2 to 3 times a week unless I need to be Nissa or the wife needs me to be Lewis. Along with open and honest communication we are doing our best. This is obviously still very new but luckily we love each other enough to work through anything and try to be a better person for the other everyday.

Wow, you know soooo much. Thanks for the info, I really appreciate it. You have definitely given me some things to think about

You look absolutely gorgeous!

This was a great read and I really needed it right now. I’m a brick and that’s okay, I’m beautiful in my own way. I’ll find a lipstick that compliments my mustache!

Yes! Happiness is contagious and compounding. Every time someone shares here, it makes me happy and encourages me to share too.

That sucks! I don’t want to make you write it again but sure would have liked to read it.

I will definitely look into it, and honesty probably read the whole series just because I’m trying to read more any way. Thank you for the info, I really appreciate it!

You don’t just feel cute, you look cute too! You have a wonderful smile, thank you for sharing it with the world!

I definitely past twink death already, I’m 36 and really can’t get more masculine. HRT would just give me some curves and smooth out the rough edges, at least from what I’ve read. It’s not off the table but not sure if I will

Thank you for sharing! Hearing about other people’s journeys help me understand that there is no correct path. I’m still figuring things out but I things this is a good step in the right direction. If taking a step makes me happy then I’m moving in the right direction. I’ve even talked to the wife about laser hair removal and she wants it too so we are going to look into it together

Happiness is key! I consider myself lucky that i don’t have the severe body dysphoria. Sometimes I wish I could be physically feminine. Sometimes I want HRT but that’s a pretty big commitment. Kinda. I know most effects go away if you stop taking it but still. I hope your pain goes away in time

This is the hardest question to answer. If you asked, do I want to be super adorable like you are? Hells yea! If you asked, do you want to keep the mustache? Of course I do! That’s the problem with both, there isn’t a standard game plan. There isn’t a road map or step by step process. What i want is a magic swap gender button. This is a problem for future Nissa, present Nissa just wants to be seen, accepted, and happy. To walk hand in hand with Lewis not live in his shadow.

Two roads diverge in a woods, yall started on one side and decided to cross the woods to the other. I’ve decided to walk amongst the trees.

I prefer bags to be honest haha! But yes both, double the fun!

STOP BEING SO PRETTY! It’s not fair, lol. Seriously girl, you look amazing. Keep being you and sharing

SQUEEEEE! Looks fantastic! I’ve been thinking of doing that color pattern but am sticking to single color pastels for now. Just did mine for the second time, this time in yellow, and they dont look any where near as good.

Do it! Join the union! Become a better electrician than me!

Honestly, I don’t know. I’m “not trans” at work, just one of the guys. I have a transflag tardis sticker on my water bottle and no one has said anything. I know one transmasc guy at work and he doesn’t have any issues that I can tell. There is absolutely some hate, but I only know one guy who is an open peice of shit about it. It is definitely a white, right wing, cis-male dominated feild here in Nebraska but hate speech of any kind will still get you fired. Most guys don’t seem to care about anything other than your B.O. and doing your job. I love being an electrician. I get to learn things every day, I get to work with my hand, make functional art. After spending months of working your ass off, when you finally get to flip that switch and see all 50 lights come on is truly an experience. When half of them don’t and you have to track down why sucks but being able to explain to the apprentice why your wire connections being tight matters makes it worth it. It’s a job like any other, but I’ve been doing it for over 10 years and out or not ill be doing it 10 years from now. I’ll never be able to wear a dress to work, but I can slip into whatever I want when I get home.

Legs together, arms straight with wrists at 90*, bend at the knees

or just blush, wink, and giggle

Practice makes perfect!

That dress looks absolutely lovely on you! I’m so happy you feel comfortable sharing

I wish I could look so good, let alone feel comfortable going out! You have fun now, i hope you enjoy the movie. What are you seeing by the way?