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Cake day: March 25th, 2022

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  • btw, does anyone have experience with quitting porn when porn is the only way to experience the things that actually turn you on? I would NEVER do to a woman the shit i’m into, niche porn sites are the only places where i can find that kind of stuff while also being able to lie to myself by saying “this is ok because i am not actually doing it”.

    Obviously it’s still horribly bad and wrong on so many levels, but i feel like i have no other option. I have no issues getting partners but sex within socially accepted boundaries just does nothing for me. And i genuinely fear that if i try to repress it all, i will eventually lose control.

    i have postponed dealing with this for years, i really don’t know what to do


  • i mean it’s not exactly a mistery. We are sexual beings, the orgasm releases a lot of feel-good chemicals and we are hardwired to chase things that make us feel good. It’s both something inherently addictive and something tied into our very psychology.

    it’s like not being able to wrap up your head on how and why people eat fast food even though it’s unhealthy. Both our bodies and minds respond positively to it, that’s all




  • or in falcon and the winter soldier.

    the “bad guys” want refugees to have rights, and the only way to convince the audience of them being evil is having them kill an american soldier on screen while the leader says “it had to be done”

    and when the show comes to term with the fact that they were objectively not evil and their requeste made sense, they have falcon write a strongly worded letter to mr. local politician. you know, the REAL way to protest and achieve change.

    a loooooooooooot of marvel productions follow this blueprint of “hi, i am the bad guy, i want free lunches in schools, abortion rights, and an end to racism. Oh, i also kill baby seals as a hobby”



  • The hoi4 community is absolute cancer, but the game is fine imo. It’s enjoyable in a healthy way, but the moment you start considering yourself a “hoi4 player” it’s over, much like for people who identify as “redditors”.

    when it comes to mods, it can be fun if you don’t take it seriously. Yeah, most people who make these are completely politically and historically illiterate (communist mussolini because he was a socialist for like 15 minutes goes brrrr), but that doesn’t mean it can’t be a fun playthrough.

    Yeah, the TL;DR is that the game and its mods are nice. Just don’t approach it thinking it is anything more than a game.