MaybeALittleBitWeird

31M, Bi, kinky, goofy, and a little queer. I’m just here to look at naked people being sexy and having fun - please don’t message me unless you’d like to have a legitimate conversation.

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Joined 3 年前
Cake day: 2023年7月3日
  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy@lemmynsfw.com•How do you find boys?English
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    2 年前

    People go to these meetings just to play pool, and they act like the sex drive has been sucked out of them by some kind of alien parasite.

    The point of a munch is to be a completely non-sexually, non-kink, social event. They’re also used by more underground groups to vet members and this is a fairly normal experience.

    Tops act like bottoms, bottoms act like tops, everyone either has kids or is some kind of little.

    If you’re looking for a high protocol master/slave situation, you’re not going to find it organically in a local scene. It honestly sounds a bit more like your attitude here might be stopping you from possibly getting to know people because this comes off as very aloof and judgemental. Not everyone fits nearly into a box, as I’m sure you can attest to.

    I get you on the 🐻 though, they aren’t for me either. I just don’t like hairy men mostly 🤷

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy@lemmynsfw.com•How do you find boys?English
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    2 年前

    This is a common problem for anyone living the rural small town life. Just finding kink friendly partners is going to be difficult without adding on another minority preference (not being cishet). The two combined is going to leave you with a pretty limited dating pool. Hell, depending on how small town we’re talking here normal cishet dating can be difficult. I’m in a medium sized city and even the kink scene is still pretty small and mostly couples looking for thirds…

    The reality is that if you’re probably going to have to come to terms with the fact that if you want these needs met you’re going to have to travel, either temporarily or on a more permanent basis. If moving isn’t an option maybe make yourself open to LDR relationships with occasional travel for meetups. Fet and Reddit used to be decent for finding things like these even if they kind of suck nowadays.

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Have you ever masturbated with someone??English
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    2 年前

    Mutual masturbation is an amazingly fun time and a great way to learn a lot about partner. There’s always some form of power exchange when it comes to sex, but mutual masturbation is something that seems to level the playing field, so to speak. I feel that it encourages intimacy and communication.

    -You get to learn about their porn habits and maybe some things you didn’t know turned them on. -You get to encourage one another during the process if you’re someone who struggles with dirty talk. -You can just touch yourself, together, or you can play with each other. -It’s generally not performative and you’re both just having fun and sharing something you would usually do alone.

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comtoPale Woman@lemmynsfw.com•literally begging you to tell me how youd use me, ill do anythingEnglish
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    2 年前

    But from your timing and community posting patterns, as someone who’s worked in digital marketing, this was a textbook example of a grass-roots campaign to build an audience for commercial content production.

    Yeah, you have to be oblivious to not see this right off the bat. The massive post volume strategically spread out to ensure it overtakes organic posting. I audibly said I’d give it less than a week before the monetization comes after her first batch of posts.

    There’s nothing wrong with a combination of sex work and exhibitionism, but there is a large difference in interactions between someone just having fun and someone intent on monetization. To be successful, you need to pick lane or you’ll fail at both.