Transcript: A woman having sex to avoid sulking, tantrums, passive aggression, guilt-tripping or abandonment is not consenting — she’s being coerced. That’s not a relationship. That’s sexual servitude under emotional duress, and far too many women have been conditioned to believe this is what compromise looks like. It’s not.
Yep! Most women I know in long term relationships with men consider sex a chore a lot of the time. And that’s with good men. We shouldn’t have to do this
It’s what I was taught when I started dating, that men always want sex and women have to decide whether or not to give it to them, which informed so many of my toxic and backward opinions at the time. I hope this mentality ends with my generation.
And then these same men wonder why their partners stop initiating intimacy
I just watched the most awesome yt clip on this topic. Emily Nagoshi, (big think) she covers so many topics, similarly neurodivergence, consent, incels, what usually goes wrong in cis het relationships, etc. I highly recommend watching it. I instantly bought her book, after listening to her words. The clip is called the biggest lies about good sex and how to have it, but she changed my entire perspective on sex, in so many ways, just watching it. https://youtu.be/qnHvFKoThP8
Thats really sad and that while sex can be so much fun and a really goodbonding expiriance :( i hope we get a more open landscape around sex and less shitty men
do you know why these folks dont wanna have sex with there parnters? Is it js a low sex drivr bad expiriances trauma or something different js “the thing jorge the monky was”