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minus-squarejtreklinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 month agoSix weeks is unrealistic to the point of self sabotage. I found the best sequence is like opener question they give a good response follow up they give a good response maybe repeat once more if there’s an obvious follow up clear any deal breakers (eg: if you have a kid) ask them out If they don’t give good responses, bail. You’re going to get a lot more information meeting in person. Going for drinks or coffee or whatever is a couple hours and few bucks.
Six weeks is unrealistic to the point of self sabotage.
I found the best sequence is like
If they don’t give good responses, bail.
You’re going to get a lot more information meeting in person. Going for drinks or coffee or whatever is a couple hours and few bucks.