• jtrek
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    1 month ago

    Six weeks is unrealistic to the point of self sabotage.

    I found the best sequence is like

    • opener question
    • they give a good response
    • follow up
    • they give a good response
    • maybe repeat once more if there’s an obvious follow up
    • clear any deal breakers (eg: if you have a kid)
    • ask them out

    If they don’t give good responses, bail.

    You’re going to get a lot more information meeting in person. Going for drinks or coffee or whatever is a couple hours and few bucks.