I have yet to come across any moving picture media that contains both a good plot and good sex, and intertwines and paces then properly.

For books there are for example the seraph series by Sarah Hawke. Well, she focusses a little too much on facials, but otherwise the sex scenes are fun to read, and paced well with the rest of the story.

I would like to read and watch more content where the characters also have a sex life. After all, they are human, and “realistic” sex is a pleasurable thing that should be nice to watch.