I have yet to come across any moving picture media that contains both a good plot and good sex, and intertwines and paces then properly.
For books there are for example the seraph series by Sarah Hawke. Well, she focusses a little too much on facials, but otherwise the sex scenes are fun to read, and paced well with the rest of the story.
I would like to read and watch more content where the characters also have a sex life. After all, they are human, and “realistic” sex is a pleasurable thing that should be nice to watch.
Can’t recall the name, but there is or was an independent studio which tried to have both erotic scenes and relevant plot. They had a “Pride and Prejudice” era type of short series in the works, but I don’t know if they’re gone or still going.
Still, it’s been a year or more since I read about them and it doesn’t seem they’ve reached sustainable fame since.