Guys why is it so hard to make friends in this game? It’s even hard to just find someone to talk to! Is it just me? Or because I’m new? Or I’m missing something here?

  • PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz
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    24 days ago

    Oh jeez that sounds like the worst luck you could have ever gotten. When I was younger / underage I always steered away or handled direct DMs with older strangers with some cautions (I’m in my mid 20’s now), but it’s understandable especially when a lot of these servers have a “friend-finder” channel where people can display their openness to get some friends.

    I can give you my link to the VR server I’m in, however I don’t want to coencerce you into if you feel trauma or distress, but I think trying to meet online people in groups should be safer than someone in private, however that might be hard initially if you are really anxious like I am. We believe in you tho!

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      23 days ago

      Yup. I had met some good people tho in that server but we didn’t become friends. Oh yeah! Plz I would love to try the server you’re in… I’m open to make friends since I almost have none. I’m also looking specifically for extroverted talkative people since I’m the opposite 😅. I mean I explained to someone here in the comments that I discovered the root of why I’m an introverted quiet person it’s because I have ADHD. So I really hope I can change and I’m trying to 😊