• darthinvidious@lemmy.world
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    21 days ago

    So where do we draw the line? Does it still make sense then to force children/infants w/ ear piercings without their consent?

    • mholiv@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      We draw the line before both. Easy as.

      No piercings before the child can understand the concept of piercings and agree to it.

      • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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        21 days ago

        Yes, I was there when mom did it for sister Before she could walk. Mom was peer pressured into doing it by her family. Best part is 2 decades sister doesn’t wear jewelry. Total waste of time just like I told mom.

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      An ear piercing is fully reversible, though. Still shouldn’t be done to an infant, but it’s very much not two equivalent actions.

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        20 days ago

        It’s not fully reversible. I had it done with the “gun” method as a young child, and I spent years without using earrings and the hole never completely closed.

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          20 days ago

          Reversible by the parent, I admit that was pretty unclear. Cartlidge damage like that will eventually close in many cases, but it can take years if it’s been left long enough. However the good news is that the surgery to correct it is incredibly minimal, so if you’re ever looking for that…!

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            20 days ago

            Thanks, in the end I returned to occasionally wearing earrings, so I’m fine with having the holes, but good to know :)