Weekend to myself. Fam is going down the bellarine (incl. bro/SIL/ankle biter and cat).
Would be expected to organise / cook etc. and I’m just not doing that.
Was hoping to head down this w/e and finish a choon I’m working on w/ the new 'puter and really push the retirement fund (RAM lol), but not worth the stress.
Surprisingly no guilt trip except from ol’ girl who’ll feel like she has to do all the things. Her food is sorted, the rest can fend for themselves.
Instead gonna day drink and make gyoza / springers for xmas lunch. The best form of therapy.
Maybe I should day drink. I’ve only got at home plans today.
Have a blast!
Wore a dress today, my white summer dress with OG Star Wars decals on it. I felt good and nice.
Then I walked past a pub where a group of young bald men had spilled out onto the bike path. They saw me, I saw them, and as soon as I walked past them one guy turned around to face me and made a rather sexual noise right in my ear and face. I called him a “fucking ballsack looking cunt” and to “get out of my face”.
It’s happened a couple of times, where I’ve chosen to dress particularly feminine and had something like this happen. It’s not everytime, but enough. Like, it’s summer and I just want to stay cool, that’s my main objective, my only goal when it comes to my summer wardrobe. Really, I think that’s all any person is trying to do when they put on a summer dress on a hot humid day. None of us are inviting anyone to make sexual noises at us in public.
I’m just… tired. We’re all fucking tired of the behaviour of immature men.
Regardless, I looked fucking cute as shit and I maintained a comfortable temperature lol
Edit: to be clear, it is 100% okay to see a stranger and think “hot damn!”, I take issue when it turns into verbal harrassment and onwards.
I stopped dressing sexy at bush doofs for the unwanted attention it bought me. Mostly wasted sleazy gay men on ecstasy. I can take high doses of psychadelics in a chesty bonds bluey even easier than getting dressed up.
It is interesting that the men/masculine people I have spoken to also have stories of this nature, that sleazy gay men do this - especially on eccies
Some men are so gross I’m sorry you experienced that.
Side note: having a J in my undies is the best no notes
Sleazy guys be ruining peoples day all over the place.
Star Wars dress sounds awesome. Ballsack can go be sweaty by himself.
It’s a great dress! Bought it years ago from target, and took the sleeves off, because they were too tight, and re-hemmed them. I need to redo it but it’s functional
I’ll post a pic later, it’s my fav dress :3
YOUNG bald men
Hope their heads get sunburnt.
Also a Star Wars dress!!! 😻
They probably don’t even moisturise or wash their bums 😭😂
Or brush their teeth
Yes! Head sunburn is horrendous. I’ve only had it in a hair part and that little stripe was bad enough.
Ugh yeah, I stopped wearing dresses because other reasons aside this is so uncomfortable.
hanging out under the aircon together ✌️
Today one of the furries will be evicted from the house. He’s off to live with a companion named Popcorn. Hopefully Popcorn doesn’t mind being dry humped in the face.
Poor popcorn :(
Yeah. Ah well.
Popcorn might be into it.
Safe travels little fella
Adios Sir Humpalot.
Bye.
Byeeeeeee cutie!!
Phew the sex maniac is gone
I know right! The other 2 no longer have to keep their arses to the wall.
YL: The others don’t like him.
Me: Oh gee. I wonder why.
Riiiight. The 2025 work year is OVER!!! Pour me out some braindeath grog please.
I want those.
🍷chin chin!
Yummm!
🍹🍹🍹
Blessings on your house!
the infamous star wars dress lol
Looked better on Betty
This made me cackle 😂😂
nice 😺
I don’t do white, but could do this 😸
I don’t do white, I think this is my only item of white clothing tbh 😅
I have a black Batman summer dress as well somewhere, that’s in severe need of a rehem of the sleeves. It has like Batman decals on it in white, and graffiti like writing of “force of good”
Urg I LOVE it!!!
It twirls out when I spin as well :3 my only gripe is the lack of pockets but I did buy it a long time ago lol
It’s over for 3 weeks.
Hello cat, music, my bed and the switch!!!
Hello cats, music, my bed and the switch!!!
FTFY
Boy do I have some photos to show you
Middle pic, definitely dropping an album soon.
Dat scream face 🙀
It’s a loving scream lol
I’m freeeeee
Today’s zucchini haul:
They’re going into springers and gyoza but I suppose water content is going to be an issue. Guess salt and wring them out or something. Last year just drank the juice straight and it was amazing.
Oh I know this one!
G I R T H Y
I T ’ S W H A T Y O U D O W I T H I T or so I keep telling myself.
Motion of the ocean baby
grate them and squeeze all the water out
I’d make them into a zucchini lasagne. Love 'em. Love 'em. Love 'em.
Ooh now there’s a thought! Never made that before.
Substitute lasagne sheets for zucchini slices. Brown the slices on the bbq or the oven first. You don’t have to it just tastes better.
My broadband is out. I’m calling it. 🍹🍹🎄
Cheers mate 🍺
Hey lately I’ve been really in your face and a lot of unsolicited advice… sorry for that. It’s just an anxiety thing. Kind of trying to ‘protect’ other people.
The great thing about advice is you can take it or leave it but you still learn from it.
I just come on a bit strong so people might not realise they can leave it, or may choose not to open up for fear of being pounced on.
For context I was raised by people who behaved like this
spoiler
Everyone knows you mean well. Give yourself some credit ❤️
really in your face and a lot of unsolicited advice
I think the great thing about this place is we can all safely get stuff out in the open and all the advice (yours very much inclusive) is very much welcomed.
It’s a really nice corner of the web that you are very much part of :)
Thanks. I’m just aware sometimes I fret and start trying to ‘herd’ people. Which could come off as controlling and make some people uncomfortable to share delicate things for fear of feeling judged.
Different people offer different types of support. I’m very solution orientated, which isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. One of the great gifts I’ve given myself in the last ten years of my life is to accept that not everyone will like me and that’s okay (see a solution for your concerns).
Yeah it’s a good way to think of it
I see it as you being caring. You are saying positive things and want positive outcomes for people.
hugs
Tried to renew passport for my grandma so she can travel at least one more time to her home country. She makes so many excuses as to why she can’t go, but fuck that.
The hardest part was getting into her email. We had to reset her password, and it was clear she hadn’t used a computer in many years. The site told her her password can’t be the same as her secret answer, and she said she didn’t know there was one.
Anyway, passport application lodged!
yay
Is someone going with her?
Maybe me if she goes in 2027 and I’m not working full-time or can take LWOP! Her country of origin is best to visit in the summer months.
I went on my lunch break and got sidetracked by the existence of my neighbour’s six day old baby. Very freshly hatched
awww
Friendsmas prep is underway for tomorrow. I’m making a self saucing sticky date pudding, and some extremely buttery garlic bread as a side to main. A cold beer is being had and my 90s + 00s pop/rock playlist is on that I’ve been blasting this month.
