The Picard Maneuver to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 3 years agoGrandma's marriage advicestartrek.websiteimagemessage-square95linkfedilinkarrow-up1834arrow-down143
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minus-squaredivineslayer@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up41arrow-down4·3 years agoThen find a partner who is okay with having separate bank accounts that you can keep your own money in. It doesn’t have to be a secret.
minus-squareGreenMario@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up9arrow-down25·3 years agoRight, so they can use the law against you and take it from you? Threaten you with violence until you give it? Man y’all are very trusting lol
minus-squareSentau@feddit.delinkfedilinkarrow-up21arrow-down4·3 years agoWhy be in a relationship if you can’t trust people at all. Better be alone then.
minus-squareGreenMario@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down6·3 years agoYou can trust people, I just advocate for a backup plan.
minus-squareKedly@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·3 years agoThats what you can structure your seperate solo account that only you have access to to be then.
minus-squarebeetus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down2·3 years agoWhy would you stay in that relationship at that point?
minus-squareGreenMario@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down8·3 years agoPoint would be you wouldn’t. Hence the secret bugout fund.
minus-squareKedly@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up6arrow-down3·3 years agoDont get married then. Seriously. That level of background distrust is toxic to a relationship. Understandable? Sure. Healthy to act on? No
Then find a partner who is okay with having separate bank accounts that you can keep your own money in. It doesn’t have to be a secret.
Right, so they can use the law against you and take it from you? Threaten you with violence until you give it?
Man y’all are very trusting lol
Why be in a relationship if you can’t trust people at all. Better be alone then.
You can trust people, I just advocate for a backup plan.
Thats what you can structure your seperate solo account that only you have access to to be then.
Why would you stay in that relationship at that point?
Point would be you wouldn’t. Hence the secret bugout fund.
Dont get married then. Seriously. That level of background distrust is toxic to a relationship. Understandable? Sure. Healthy to act on? No