Happy belated Mother’s Day from another exhausted trans mom.
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Just healing and growing.
Care to join?
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Laser - the last time(s) you’ll have to pain
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•The fact that trans women age and grow old is in itself a triumph.English
9·25 days agoAnd some of us managed to reproduce before/during transition so we can continue our legacy even further
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Nail polish tips for absolute noob?English
2·26 days agoEasy to get opi here in Canada. If you use them for base and top, you can get colours on the cheap with QUO at shoppers and just have fun.
Nail hardener or strengthener can help it last longer and protect nails a bit. HRT can leave some less than ideal nails compared to what you may have been used to growing.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I understand physical dysphoria much better now (marked nsfw because talk of genitals)English
6·26 days agoMood
Almost at 2 years on HRT though so it’s less of a nuisance but the pit I succumb into when I do get dysphoria about it has grown with every waiting day.
As fashions shift I suppose. We had a huge nekomimi thing forever and eventually a generation grew with that oversaturated market and went the other way.
Eventually the pendulum will return to cat girl supremacy era.
Do you have backing for that close ties with the mag admin claim? I know the controversy but doesn’t seem to have any teeth.
Despite being a more recent adopter of proton for mail myself, they also have essentially a replacement suite for Google, there’s a proton drive. Admittedly, I don’t have experience with it as I’ve not for collaboration and have been migrating more and more away from clouds.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Alberta@lemmy.ca•TIL that the term "parking stall" is basically unique to Alberta
1·1 month agoIf calling it a stall instead of spot flows better, and the other person receives the information, language’s role is completed successfully. You do you.
Please consider distancing from google for trans content 😅
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Happy Trans Visibility DayEnglish
2·2 months agoHow did anyone spend their day? While there were community events and gatherings, I chose to try and get fresh air and ground in nature. Went a little out, parked near a trail, and enjoyed our second spring stroll (weather was nice too) with my wife and two little kids (5&2).
Things aren’t perfect and I still am working towards some “end” goals, but it is nice to have an opportunity to reset and try and change my mind into looking forward… and recalibrate my rage for my further existence and progress.
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Playstation 2@lemmy.world•What are your favorite PS2 games?English
4·2 months agoKatamari Damacy
Good budgeting gets a treat girl!!! (If budgeted)
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•neo-vaginal microbiome: update & recipesEnglish
2·3 months agoYou’re always helpful and intelligent, ily💖
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone•was fingered for the first time ...
6·3 months agoI’m ……… happy for you and soooo been waiting for something like that probably all my life. I dream of this with my wife, and just all the things. 🙃
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•First post, first time going out with fem clothesEnglish
1·3 months agoLove this fo you 💖
tama@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•neo-vaginal microbiome: update & recipesEnglish
3·3 months agoThanks for all the info.
I’m in the paperwork part for mine then I’ll have a date to look forward to at some point.
Tell loved ones, the rest get breadcrumbs at best. People who don’t love and appreciate you as a human are not worth the time or air.
I first started with people I felt safe enough around, in this case it was actually within my work environment because I wanted to establish a safety network there as I did it.
Find a moment, get the persons attention, “hey can I share something with you?” And you have a chance to take some breaths and stabilize while they change their attention. No sense turning back, but you could, though throwing myself in the deeper end like this has been working. It’s easier to steel one’s resolve when facing it for real versus just living it out in your mind.
“Sooo I’m trans, I go by <pronouns>, I’m kinda new at this. “
For many people I had an added comment of like “I really admire <aspect or quality> in you” etc and it puts this into a share realm for them. I’ve tied them to me with something like that and it kinda opened all the conversations.
It helps that I did this working in an education environment so literally everyone is educated adults. I did select people in small waves and did it bit by bit and it kept getting easier to speak out loud, share, open up and start actually living….
Didn’t take long from there to find and feel support, then take the plunge fully.
Good luck anyone and everyone.





What’s the bad news part there?